3.31.2010

cliff notes

Forgive me for not writing in a VERY long time, but it's been an insane past couple months - and as my brother said to me at the dinner table a couple weeks ago, "what? you haven't posted in months?! but SO MUCH is happening, you should be blogging like CRAZY!"
Well, as it turns out, so much HAS happened - but that means I've been incredibly busy, overly exhausted, and honestly just too preoccupied to post. So instead, I'm going to attempt to run through the past few life-changing events in record time. Bear with me.

SO, we got an offer on our Summerville home back in January and in the following three weeks, we had to say good bye to all of our friends

to our Neighborhood


and pack up all our worldy belongings...

We put my car on a transport

and had our house packed into a big trailer

to be stored in SC until we found a new home... our deadline was pretty ambitious. I was more than 8 months pregnant!
And just a note - our moving day just so happened to be the ONE day in twenty years when SC got snow. It started mid afternoon (our movers were there until after 8 pm!!) and didn't stop until we had over 6 inches the next morning! How ironic is that?!Check out Sydney and Meghan with one of the many Legend Oaks snowmen.

So after a quick round of one-last-goodbye's with all our neighbors, we hooked up the boat... No wait, Tom shoveled out the boat, then loaded it up with our "absolutely-necessary-for-the-next-couple-months" boxes, THEN hooked up the trailer and off we went, with Rolo, Sydney and Kya all cuddled in the back seat for our 20 hour drive to Westford, Massachusetts.
We stopped just north of DC at a dog-friendly hotel around 2 am that night, amidst the extraordinary heaps of blizzard snow that had been pushed just about everywhere and anywhere. (Try parking a large pick-up truck and boat in THAT - better yet, try walking two dogs that are used to 80 degree weather around that!)
But finally, that following night - on Valentine's Day to be exact - after a long exhausting trip, we made it to Westford, just about an hour after my car arrived safe and sound off the transport. We were tired, we were disheveled, we were overwhelmed and we were homeless - but we could not have been happier to see Matty, Lisa, Amelia & Isabelle and the attic that we would call home for the next five weeks.
Tom was up and running, working from the dining room by Monday night, and I was busy scheduling appts to meet my new Dr's, take a tour of the local birthing center at Emerson Hospital and of course speak with our real estate agent to set up as many showings as humanly possible as soon as we could manage. The first few days of house hunting were crushing. I was very seriously worried that I was going to be delivering this baby boy in Matty's attic. But as soon as we got our expectations in line with what was realistic up here in such a "different" market than South Carolina - and as soon as I started to think we were just going to have to settle for something that was "good enough - I guess," we drove to what would end up being our new home. I remember following our real estate agent up the endless unpaved drive, thankful that we were in Tom's 4WD truck, and hearing Tom saying, "Wow, this is Impressive!" and thinking, "Wow, this would be a PAINFUL ride when I'm in labor." And then at the end of the long wooded road, we saw a house all alone with nothing but land and trails and rocks around it. Tom was instantly smitten, but as always, I was a much harder sell. After a second showing and some second third and forth opinions from the family, we put in an offer... and after a bit of negotiating and inspecting and all the insanity that goes along with homebuying - here we are, official Westford residents!
I was SO excited to schedule delivery of our trailer. Living at Matty and Lisa's was great - don't get me wrong, we LOVED it - but living out of suitcases and bare-necessities-boxes gets old real quick. The day the trailer was coming felt like Christmas in March! I was SO excited to see it coming up the drive...
But moving in proved to be a pretty big headache - the truck driver had some troubles getting up to our house...
after cutting some limbs (that's our crazy driver up in the tree - luckily he let us unpack our ladder from the truck for him) and digging out numerous rocks and stumps...
our driver made it to the very last little curve in the road, and after hours of trying, he decided he just couldn't cut it.
After nearly a half mile up the road, he gave up just 100 yards from our driveway. I was utterly disappointed and stressed beyond belief. Tom's hands were blistered and torn from digging out more and more of the road. My brother and my dad were sweating over their shovels and rakes and chainsaws. And all we could do was watch our trailer drive away, and reschedule our move for the following day, rent an additional shuttle truck and hope for better luck with our second attempt and a brand new day. All in all, by the following night - everything was in the house, and I had not been thrown into labor - so in hindsight, it was just a small kink in an otherwise remarkably smooth transition. So - here are some photos of the house and the surrounding woods.
Once I clear enough boxes out to show anything inside, I'll put up some interior pictures too... slowly but surely. I promise.
Of course, we're not the only ones who are ecstatic to be in our new home - the dogs are in heaven here. Rolo runs with the deer and Kya ocassionally comes in from outside sopping wet from whatever new stream or pond she's discovered, but we're really trying to teach them to stay in the yard. It's a slow process, but at least we have no real neighbors to complain. We do have the weekly parade of motorbikes and 4-wheelers out front, but other than that it's pretty quiet back here. One day last week we had a new record - 4 cars came up the road in one day, all of them ultimately reaching our driveway, looking utterly confused, and making an awkward u-turn back out. It's funny how quickly Sydney and I have begun to stare out the window with a look of "who the heck are you and what do you want?!" when just a couple short months ago we would've said, "oh, bless your hearts - y'all come back now ya hee-ah?"

2.10.2010

It's been a long time...

Well, I have LOTS of adorable pictures to post from our trip back home but it's been such a whirlwind and so much has happened since my last post that I just haven't had a spare minute to upload or update... so let me explain:
Inevitably - while I was in Boston, we not only had two second-showings from two interested buyers (MIS-scheduled - of course - at just about the SAME time) but we had an offer quickly come in which (after the obligatory negotiations) Tom and I accepted. Strangely enough, it was the exact moment that Matty touched the ultrasound transducer to my belly and I caught a glimpse of our baby boy that I got the call on my cell phone from Tom that we had an offer.
From that moment on, the rest of the visit and the rest of this past month has been one big QUICK blur. Our buyers wanted to close in less than 30 days so here we are - up to our ears in boxes, trying to comprehend the reality of what's going on.
My car will be picked up for transport tomorrow night. The moving truck will come Friday morning to take all of our worldly belongings to storage, and Saturday morning Tom, Sydney, Rolo, Kya and I will pack into the truck and tow the boat up into the snow.
Thanks to Matty and Lisa we will have a place to stay while we are searching for a home and we are optimistic we will be in a new place before the baby arrives (and before Matty and Lisa realize they are Crazy for inviting two dobermans, two extra cars and a BOAT to stay at their home).
Wish us luck. I think we might just need it!

1.14.2010

NapTime


so much for sleeping...

1.12.2010

We have arrived...


and Sydney couldn't be happier.

1.08.2010

conducting Kya

I'm not sure why, but the dogs seemed to actually enjoy this:

and it probably lasted for over an hour! Rolo even started to sit when she cued him. Now if I could just get him to "not eat my down comforter" on cue, we'd be all set...

1.03.2010

Six Months.

I've had a few questions about how big I am, so here you go -
my big ol belly at six months...

12.27.2009

Better than Ice Cream!

Nana & Papa are here for the Holiday!!

Ironically, just as Tom and I were catching a poorly-timed cold, Nana & Papa were catching a flight down to Charleston to spend Christmas with us in our 70 degree Winter Wonderland. By the time they arrived, Tom was feeling a little better and I had lost my voice completely. Sydney was just getting used to me clicking, whispering, and (unfortunately) snapping at her - and her new favorite phrase was "Mommy, You Speak LOUDER!" so she was even MORE excited than normal to see (and hear) Nana & Papa - as was I! (read NAPTIME for Mommy)
For those of you who don't know, Nana is recovering from some scheduled surgery on her foot and is hobbling on crutches, so she was being chauffered by my father through the airport - Sydney was more than happy to take over...

Walking out of the airport, Nana was laughing hysterically at the site of us in the crosswalk - Sick Pregnant Woman pushing Grandmother holding Toddler in wheelchair while carrying crutches. "We would be at least a thousand points!" she burst out laughing. You can see where I get my sense of humor from.

But regardless of any of our setbacks, we had a wonderful holiday and enjoyed lots of laughs (and naps) and plenty of Christmas fun!
CLICK HERE to see more photos of our week.

12.19.2009

Santa's "Sleigh"

Waiting for Santa to come on the firetruck...

and here he is! All the kids came out to see him
and everyone got candy from his fireman "elf"

I realized today that Sydney doesn't really know what a sleigh is.
She's only ever seen Santa on a Firetruck!

12.13.2009

No Tears.

Santa stopped by the Club House today. Sydney was genuinely very excited to see him, and thankfully he was patient enough to wait for her to ask for "candy and Olivia's Christmas Book" to which he just smiled and nodded. But on the way home Syd assured us that Santa already knew all this because, "Yeah, it's on my list."

But ironically, after we lit the candles tonight, it was Hanukkah Harry that brought her the coveted Olivia Helps with Christmas. I just finished reading it to her after Daddy tucked her in bed. Oh yes, it is a Happy Hanukristmas for everyone!

Note the new Olivia doll that Auntie Berta sent (and Sydney's matching collar left over from her Halloween costume) as well as her new boots from GranGran and PopPop, which I might add, light up in three places when she walks... (and Yes, I Do wish they made them in my size - thank you very much.)

12.06.2009

Just another

day at the park with Moira...



12.01.2009

S'mile

Today Sydney discovered the magic that is the S'more.

11.27.2009

Green Friday

Well, no doorbuster deals could get us out of bed at 4 am this Friday, but we did head out in the afternoon to get our Christmas Tree (or "Hanukkah Bush", depending on which side of the family you're on...) Tom was ready to buy the first one he saw, but I insisted he hold them up one by one, so Sydney and I could inspect each one and find the perfect Rokita Family Christmas Tree. By tree number two, Sydney cared more about hiding her toy frog in the cinder blocks separating the trees while completely ignoring Tom and me - so we compromised on a nearly perfect tree that was on top of the pile and called it a day.

Surprisingly, we brought the tree in the house and set it all up by Friday night, but since then we've only made it as far as the lights and a few strands of tinsel. But Sydney doesn't seem to mind. That way she can still play "Ring-Around-The-Christmas-Tree" and not break anything.

11.26.2009

Thankful

Hope you all enjoyed your Holiday. We enjoyed a nice relaxed Thanksgiving over at Ms. Cindy's house next door. I made Sydney a simple little smockdress for the occasion, and surprisingly she loved it. It was reversible so she kept peeking inside the collar to make sure her pocket was still there, or to announce that the "S for Sydney" was on the inside... Typically she couldn't care less about anything I make her, and as soon as I make her try something on, she takes one look and says, "mmn, I want this Off" so I was thankful that she was pretty excited to wear this little number. And best of all, when she inevitably got cranberry sauce and gravy on one side, we just flipped it over, so she could get pumpkin pie and whipped cream on the other.

11.24.2009

Soccer Star

Well, the Titans had their last game of the season this past Saturday.

After the game (and after their "Mighty Mighty Titans" song)

they had a little awards ceremony and...

Sydney got a TROPHY - a bobblehead soccerman trophy to be exact.
She's very proud. As were we.

Although I do think Syd's trophy should have read, "ALL STAR HANDHOLDER" or "RING-AROUND-THE-ROSIE QUEEN" or "DID I KICK IT ENOUGH TO GET A TREAT YET?"

11.14.2009

Tiny Titans

Got Sydney's soccer photos today...

I guess I should be happy she's even looking at the camera.

11.07.2009

Soccer Syd


Check it out - it looks like she's actually running TOWARD to ball!
Now that's what I call progress... or just a well-timed photo. Either way, I'll take it.

11.03.2009

It's official...

Well, I'm finally ready to announce the news... I'm pregnant!
And it's a Boy!! Thanks to those of you who have been keeping it a secret - or who have just been pretending not to see my bulging belly. I had my 16 week ultrasound today and everything looked good - so that was a huge relief. They've put my due date at April 17th, which means Sydney may just have to share her birthday with this little guy. I'm betting she'll be okay with that... as long as it doesn't involve sharing her cake.

11.01.2009

A Very HAPPY Halloween!


Don't worry Papa - I brushed her teeth like crazy...
Click here to see more of the Halloween Fun.

10.27.2009

Pumpkin Patch

We headed out to Boone Hall Plantation today for the Halloween Festival. Sydney got to play on the bizaare jump "pillow", feed some stinky goats, climb on the crazy tube swings, and we all enjoyed the exceptionally spooky hayride. All in all - a great time!
Here are some photos from the day.

"silly Daddy"

proud PopPop

I think she could have stayed in there all day.

Spooooky HayRide = "I'm Not Scared."
To see more, click here.. And pay close attention to the "pumpkin patch" - definitely not fooling anyone.